What I Learned From My Wedding

As I celebrate 5 years of being married I look back at1) I've Become a Fan of Flowers- I went the cheap
my own wedding planning and 5 years later I can tellroute and didn't do my due diligence when it came to
you from my point of view as a bride what I'm glad Ichoosing my florist. Oh the wonderful florists I know
did and what I wish I had done.now that I wish could have design my wedding
My own wedding was my inspiration to begin myflowers! My wedding flowers died during the pictures
wedding planning business which has grownand when my bridesmaids asked if they could throw
significantly over the years and helped many couplesaway their bouquets I said, "sure but take them down
have their dream day. What I learned from my ownto the river and take the photographer with you." And
wedding I have passed on to the couples who'sthat's where we got the most amazing picture...
weddings I help plan and now I want to pass on thislemonade out of lemons!
wedding wisdom to you.2) A Pro Videographer- I have to say I love my
What I Would Do Again...wedding video but my husband laughs and says it was
1) Marry Simon- I have to be a little bit cheesy in thisthe IKEA of wedding videos... we had to put it together
article because after all it's my 5 year weddingourselves. Our friends videotaped the day but I ended
anniversary as I write this. But I wouldn't change theup doing the video editing myself. I love watching it on
man if I had to do it all over again.our anniversary or if I'm super mad at Simon (hey- it
2) Write Our Own Vows- Simon and I spent quite a bitmakes you remember why you love him!) and if I had
of time writing our own vows for our wedding. It wasto do it over again I would put some of the budget
so worth it. It's the part of our wedding that I cherishtowards a pro videographer.
the most. We actually spent a lot of time designing our3) I Would Eat- One of the biggest pieces of advice I
entire ceremony with our priest. Cool thing, that samegive to my brides is you have to eat during the day. I
priest is going to baptize our new son Declan in alook back at my photos and I remember being
couple of weeks.starving! I wish I'd eaten something as you can really
3) Plan It Together- We planned our wedding together.see how exhausted I am in my wedding photos which
It wasn't me locked up in a room planning by myself.makes me really upset. I perk up again in the photos at
Simon was very involved and therefore our weddingthe reception but by then it was too late.
was a reflection of both of our personalities and thatBridal Advice
made it a lot of fun.The biggest thing I would do again is have my team
4) Prolong the Party- We planned a weddinghelp with the day. Although we were in the very early
weekend in Banff and all our friends and family madestages, Firefly was there as the wedding coordinator
it a vacation. We went rafting, sightseeing, andmaking sure that everything I had planned came to life.
generally partied all over Banff. It was an absoluteI didn't have to set up, tear down or deal with the nitty
blast.gritty on my wedding day and I will forever be thankful
What I Would Change...for that.