| In your wedding plans, there are many different steps | | | | special day and the way in which you want it to |
| to think about. With luck, however, there will be plenty | | | | proceed. Things never run as smoothly as they are |
| of advice available and people to offer support and | | | | hoped and there will always be potential for conflict |
| help. You may wish to try to enlist the help of special | | | | and discord, but you can minimize this as much as |
| friends or relatives you who trust and know well. Good | | | | possible by starting, from the outset, to develop a |
| friends will be there to assist you at every step if you | | | | process by which people understand your wants and |
| need. They can help you reduce the burden and | | | | needs. |
| stresses of the day and the days leading up to it. They | | | | You'll be best served by developing a vision for your |
| will be happy to take on roles which you may consider | | | | special day and by distributing this to your friends and |
| to be rather routine and mundane in nature. This will | | | | relatives, preferably in written form, or through |
| release you from the burden of some of these | | | | meetings and social events with them. Now is the time |
| activities and allow you to concentrate on more | | | | to start healing any wounds or conflicts that you may |
| important or enjoyable tasks. | | | | previously have had with people and give them the |
| You may need to develop a way in which you can | | | | responsibility and trust that they deserve in order to |
| communicate freely with your friends and relatives and | | | | help you with your special time. |
| ensure that they know what you wish to have on your | | | | |