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| Wedding was created to merge a couple who has | | | | your wedding, try to suit it to your specified budget. |
| unconditional love for each other. It is the time for a | | | | What if your lists do not agree with your budget? |
| lifetime commitment under the law of the creator of | | | | Simply go to your least important list and cut the last |
| heaven and earth. We frequently have few | | | | thing you want in your wedding one after the other |
| arguments on how we celebrate our own wedding. | | | | (toss coin if who will have the first cut). You will not put |
| As a soon to be husband and wife you need to | | | | something in your least important list if it is necessary, |
| practice making decisions together and checking up on | | | | so thinking about the cut will make you stressed. This |
| both sides will be the goal of this method. More often, | | | | is a fun activity that will let you enjoy wedding planning |
| even if you already decided what to do on certain | | | | more. So what if you already cut the list important list |
| things we will still be on a situation where we need to | | | | and your budget still do not agree with your wedding? |
| consider other feelings too. Thus, making decision | | | | Now, we have a big problem. What you need to do |
| when you need to acknowledge important people first | | | | now is to go to your very important list and pick the |
| will never be easy. There will always be times like this | | | | necessary things first! This is the time where you |
| if you are on wedding planning stage where you need | | | | combine your lists and decide together on how you |
| to think over their suggestions and opinions. | | | | can make a perfect wedding. Pick the very important |
| | | | | things one by one until it suits your budget. So what if |
| When we talk about wedding planning, it is very | | | | you still have a hard time fitting your wants to your |
| important to balance his and her wants. Let's face it, | | | | budget? Ask the help of a wedding planning |
| you will never have a perfect wedding if you are just | | | | coordinator! It is the only way to solve some issues |
| considering the other side of the story. Equal | | | | with your budget. Although you might spend few |
| participation and number of guests on wedding day | | | | dollars by hiring an expert, you will see the difference |
| must be made. I have been to a wedding where | | | | along the way. You may ended up having your very |
| almost all guests were on the brides' side and they | | | | important and least important list at the same time on |
| ended up being divorced! I am not saying that if the | | | | your wedding and you do not have to worry on |
| wedding was dominated by one side, the relationship | | | | anything else because they can take care of that for |
| will not work. However, practicing equality as soon as | | | | you. Having your useful lists will make the job of a |
| possible is a good way to start a married life. So how | | | | professional easier and maybe useful to them on their |
| can we balance each others wants? How to say I will | | | | next client. Who knows, may be they will give you |
| have this and you will have that? These are some the | | | | discounts for the useful information! |
| questions that is so difficult to find an answer! Even I | | | | |
| who is always there on wedding planning stage have | | | | Your wedding day will always be the last day of being |
| a hard time figuring out what to do on this kind of | | | | single. However, this will also be the start of a new |
| situation. My suggestion is to list the things you desire | | | | beginning and a continuation of unconditional love. |
| on wedding day and separate them into "very | | | | |