Bridezilla And The Wedding Video - How A Prepared Videographer Soothes The Savage Beast

If you have volunteered or have been recruited toout of her control. So this is the point when her skin
shoot your friend or cousin's wedding video and you'rebegins to turn green, her teeth sharpen, her eyes bulge
becoming alarmed because you've witnessed theand her clothes transform into a shredded shirt and
blushing bride slowly, but surely transforming into theripped purple pants.
dreaded "Bridezilla, " relax, take a deep breath andYou may be wondering what this has to do with your
keep reading. Bridezillas are easy to tame when youvolunteer wedding video services. Well, you have a
know what is fueling their fire breathing and how easyfantastic opportunity to tame this raging beast by
it is to douse the flames.showing her that she need not worry since you are a
A wedding is a production of monumental proportions.professional who has the wedding video under control.
It's similar to juggling twenty or more eggs in the air,And you become a professional by knowing that
knowing that if you drop just one, the entire productionshooting the wedding video takes more than just
can become a catastrophic disaster.showing up at the wedding with your video camera. It
Now that example may be over-dramatizing therequires getting all your wedding video production
situation. Think about it. When was the last time youducks in a row. This may sound complicated, but all it
could say that a wedding was actually a disasterentails is a little planning where you:
(that's the wedding...not the marriage)? Even whenMeet and communicate with the bride and all key
small (or big for that matter) things go wrong, theyparticipants
usually make for funny stories told to children andGather and check all video equipment
grandchildren around the family Thanksgiving table.Purchase sufficient videotape stock
But, of course, those stories are funny because they'reAttend the Rehearsal
told from hindsight. At the time that the bride is planningArrive early for wedding
the wedding of her dreams, every tiny detail is aStay focused
matter of life and death. She's been dreaming aboutThere is also plenty of information online that you can
this day her whole life. She's rehearsed it in her mind,access to help guide you through the wedding video
over and over. And make no mistake. She's definitelyproduction process.
the star of this production. Trouble is, she has beenJust remember...fear, anxiety and stress come from
imagining a perfect, finished production, without takingnot being prepared. If you prepare yourself the same
into account the coordination of all the details that goway professional's do, you'll show the bridezilla that
into making it right.you are relaxed, confident and looking forward to
Since the odds are that she has had no priorcapturing a once-in-a-lifetime event that she will
experience with event planning, its easy for her totreasure forever. Then watch her transform back into
become overwhelmed when details within thethe beautiful blushing bride she always dreamed of
numerous aspects seem to be going wrong and arebeing.